IDENTIFYING THE RIGHT ADVICE FOR YOU
A lot of gurus and coaches out there are sending the message that they are " the only one who can help you", and all the others are wrong. They say all the others are trying to benefit from you, but they don’t, they are the only ones who really want to help you, etc, etc, etc.
This way of talking is deceiving. Don’t get me wrong, there are people out there with very aggressive marketing campaigns, selling their products with very little real help to offer. But we cannot put everyone in the same bag. Some self-improvement sites are of great help. And some come from the heart, and offer sincere advice.
I am not going to say my site is good, or my site is bad; that is for you to decide. You are the only one who can tell if something is helpful or not. If it is what you particularly want or need, or not. I can only offer what I have to give and it is for you to decide if you need and can use the specific help that I offer.
The truth is that when you are looking for help, only you know what helps you, what suits you, what makes you tick and what does not stick to you.
You want to focus in finding the right person or help for you. The one that speaks to you. It may be the best piece of advice but if we do not understand it, what good can it do?
You may know a lot already and need just a small push, or you may be just starting and eager to learn all there is out there.
You may be fast at understanding a long complicated piece of information. Or you may be like most people, and need a little more explanation, a little more dedicated attention.
What I am trying to say here is that no matter the kind of help that is being offered out there, some will be beneficial to you and some not.
Some may be very interesting and fulfilling for certain people, while for others it may be confusing and entangling, which can potentially even make matters worse.
No one can speak to everyone; it is impossible. The same way we do not understand just anyone or everyone. But some will make a profound impact in our lives, or at least one that is sufficiently deep enough. Enough is a good word; it is just what everyone needs. Enough help to succeed; just that amount, no more, that will make it.
Let’s look for advice, in all areas of our lives. When we find what we need at the time, we should go for it, because it is our chance for improvement.
There is a very important factor that we should consider; the time factor. Don’t delay your progress. Do not delay your progress by all means.
Did you hear of time management? Well, I do not want to get into long and boring explanations here. The point is the more you delay a decision, or the more you delay taking action on what we have already decided, the more we delay our progress.
How many times do we delay our decision to get help? How many times we delay implementing good advice? And how many times do we realize with regret that we should have already taken action on a certain matter. But it is not too late, it never is. It is not too late, but it could have been done earlier, couldn’t it….?
We could already be somewhere else farther advanced into our own improvement path, into our own unique success.
And for your own progress, once you identify that something is of help to you, take action. Do not delay your progress!
Remember, every time you delay taking a decision you are delaying you. Your own unique progress.
Take the advice or not, it is up to you too.
This way of talking is deceiving. Don’t get me wrong, there are people out there with very aggressive marketing campaigns, selling their products with very little real help to offer. But we cannot put everyone in the same bag. Some self-improvement sites are of great help. And some come from the heart, and offer sincere advice.
I am not going to say my site is good, or my site is bad; that is for you to decide. You are the only one who can tell if something is helpful or not. If it is what you particularly want or need, or not. I can only offer what I have to give and it is for you to decide if you need and can use the specific help that I offer.
The truth is that when you are looking for help, only you know what helps you, what suits you, what makes you tick and what does not stick to you.
You want to focus in finding the right person or help for you. The one that speaks to you. It may be the best piece of advice but if we do not understand it, what good can it do?
You may know a lot already and need just a small push, or you may be just starting and eager to learn all there is out there.
You may be fast at understanding a long complicated piece of information. Or you may be like most people, and need a little more explanation, a little more dedicated attention.
What I am trying to say here is that no matter the kind of help that is being offered out there, some will be beneficial to you and some not.
Some may be very interesting and fulfilling for certain people, while for others it may be confusing and entangling, which can potentially even make matters worse.
No one can speak to everyone; it is impossible. The same way we do not understand just anyone or everyone. But some will make a profound impact in our lives, or at least one that is sufficiently deep enough. Enough is a good word; it is just what everyone needs. Enough help to succeed; just that amount, no more, that will make it.
Let’s look for advice, in all areas of our lives. When we find what we need at the time, we should go for it, because it is our chance for improvement.
There is a very important factor that we should consider; the time factor. Don’t delay your progress. Do not delay your progress by all means.
Did you hear of time management? Well, I do not want to get into long and boring explanations here. The point is the more you delay a decision, or the more you delay taking action on what we have already decided, the more we delay our progress.
How many times do we delay our decision to get help? How many times we delay implementing good advice? And how many times do we realize with regret that we should have already taken action on a certain matter. But it is not too late, it never is. It is not too late, but it could have been done earlier, couldn’t it….?
We could already be somewhere else farther advanced into our own improvement path, into our own unique success.
And for your own progress, once you identify that something is of help to you, take action. Do not delay your progress!
Remember, every time you delay taking a decision you are delaying you. Your own unique progress.
Take the advice or not, it is up to you too.
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